How does one succeed in life?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Im happy but there is a heavy feeling of sadness in my heart that I just can't remove. Why am I like this?

Making more friends is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What happens when your partner doesn't see the value in you and continuously hurts you by searching for something in others knowing it hurts you?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Have you ever been a victim of gaslighting? What happened?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Procrastinates a lot.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Does not procrastinate.

What exactly is the boundary men should follow while looking at girls so they don't call them perverts?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can people balance religious beliefs with seeking professional mental health care?

Ask yourself:

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What are some cute picnic ideas for a romantic date?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What I need from you?

Did another parent ever tell you something about your child that you didn’t know?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why do Indian parents force their kids to do stuff?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What are some life hacks for living on your own?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What do gang stalkers want?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What is the naughtiest fantasy that you've lived out?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

That's it for today.